A conversational role playing game for 1-∞ players.
Characters: The player’s play themselves, so there’s no particular character set-up process.
Small talk is a game of conversation for its own sake. It’s a collaborative game. The reward is opening for deeper conversations, affirming relationships and avoiding silence.
It’s good practice to play the game with new acquaintances.
The game can last as short as a casual greeting or as long as it takes to get your hair cut at the hairdresser’s. Or the length of a taxi ride, as the case may be.
* Greet the other players in a friendly way. * Try to keep the conversation upbeat and positive. * Casual compliments are ok, but keep it superficial. Don’t get creepy. * Try out some casual eye contact now and then, but don’t stare. * Smile. * Respect the other player’s personal space. * Be polite and respectful. * Find common ground. Be politely inquiring about the other player’s interests, and see if you can find some topic of conversation that will interest you both. Or that you can endure listening to. * Ask open-ended follow-up questions starting with words like «how…» and «what…». Or make relevant statements. * Share some stuff about yourself and your day, but don’t over-share. Don’t get into symptoms, diseases, sensitive subjects and extreme negativity. * It’s ok to bitch and complain as long as you don’t do it about sensitive topics. The weather is a very good topic of conversation. * Notice your surroundings. You can riff off of them for further conversational topics. * Avoid sensitive subjects like religion, politics and sex. You can also drop death, divorce and diseases. You know what I mean. * Humor is good. Just remember the taboo topics.
You can even play the game without anyone knowing you’re playing a game.